One of the basic principles of life is the maintenance of normal relations between people and the desire to avoid a conflict. Respect can be earned with politeness. But in life you often have to deal with rudeness, harshness, disrespect to another person. Every request must be accompanied by the word "please". For any service or help you need to say "thank you". For any trouble caused to another, you need to apologize. These magic words need to be learned to speak without thinking, automatically. There must be a border between what a person wants to say or do and what is possible to say or do that will be pleasant or unpleasant to others. If you've ever stopped and studied people out in public, you've probably noticed how many rude folks there are. People used to strive to be polite and show their best side to the public, but it seems as though many of them don't care what anyone thinks anymore. Parents used to teach their children good manners, but it appears that's not the case now. Even an adult's manners have suffered lately. What they may not realize is that bad behavior leaves a lasting impression on anyone who sees them.
This article tells us about bad manners and why it’s OK to have them. The first part of it represents the idea of bad manners generally. Then it tells what the unsavoury behaviour is and about attitude to that. Also, the text has information about being in training audience, what is unable to conform and what is a fleeting problem. The main idea is that every man has his own opinion about bad manners. Something that someone may consider unacceptable, another person may consider it normal. It’s common to hear complaints about the behaviour of others, but who are the judges? Manner is defined as the way of doing something or behaving. Manners are one of the most important elements of life. In my opinion the most demonstrative bad manner is bad attitude to someone. You should be aware of the needs and energy of people around you. Be polite even to people you don’t agree with. Just remember that your freedom is over where does the freedom of others begin. Just try not to disturb people round you. As the text represented acceptable things are different for everyone. And only one thing that we can do is not to judge so quick.
Politeness is an important social skill that can help you make friends, succeed professionally, and show respect. You may have good manners already but are looking to expand them for an upcoming dinner party, work event, or just for life in general. You can be polite by offering a proper greeting and showing good manners with words and actions. But who is a well-mannered person? A well-mannered person is a person who never shouts, swears, or quarrels with somebody in the presence of others because if a person respects himself, he will respect other people as well. And for example, if somebody`s behaviour in public doesn`t suit a well-mannered person, he always keeps himself from criticism and derogative remarks. And here are some features distinguishing well-mannered persons from ill-mannered persons: 1. They don`t judge the others, they just accept them as they are 2. They don`t discuss their life, it means that they don`t talk about their income, intimate details, etc. 3. They don`t prefer listening to gossips or spread gossips about the others. Polite people are not interested in these things and they don`t pay any attention to intriguing stories about other people 4. They use such polite words as “thank you” or “please” 5. They don’t push their opinions onto others 6. They are very attentive listeners. You never see them checking their phone while talking 7. And many others features… There’s a Slovenian proverb :“politeness costs nothing but yields much.” Although good manners cost nothing, they can make a vast difference to how other people feel about you.
I think that to have a bad manners is not bad,because there are not perfect people. But we can not just think of ourselves.Parents used to teach their children good manners, but it appears that's not the case now. Even an adult's manners have suffered lately. What they may not realize is that bad behavior leaves a lasting impression on anyone who sees them. We have a saying in English “Manners maketh man”. The expression means that, if you want to be a real man, you have to have good manners. “Manners” means the way that you behave to other people, particularly in public. If you have good manners you are polite and courteous. You remember to say “please” and “thank you”. You make people feel welcome and at ease. And if you have bad manners you are rude and discourteous. You say unpleasant things to people. You make them feel unwelcome and upset. If someone has good manners, we can say that they are “well mannered”; and if they have bad manners, we can say that they are “bad mannered” or “ill mannered”.
We can often hear the some phrases when people say that it is so plesant to be sorrounded by well-mennerd people. But what is the defenition of "well-mennerd person"? What can we do to achive it? And should we? Though nowadays etiquette is often cosidered as something boring people with good manners are always stand out in a crowd. We always mantion the way other people treat us and others. So we can point out some characteristics and qualities to call someone "well-mannered". First of all, it is about the way person talk. It seems so simple, yet so many people forget about how important that is. The ability to choose right words means a lot. "Good morning/afternoon" , "please" , "thank you" , "you're welcome" - are just some words that we knew ever since we were kids. Secondly, to be considerate towards other people. Everyone will mention if you cede a seat in a bus to an elderly person or pregnant woman. To open the door for a person whose hands are full, to take someone's heavy bags, to wait until people enter and only after that go out of the room. Such usual things but so many people forget to do it. In conclusion, I hope that no one will forget how important that is to be polite, as sometimes your polite word can brighten up somebody's dark day.
The world has changed quite a lot, and the rules of etiquette do not keep up with it. What do bad manners of a modern person look like? Bad manners due to smartphones, social networks, selfies and other problems.Constantly "hang" on the phone during a meeting with friends, tag a person in provocative photos without asking, do not warn about your lateness in advance — today, many of us are prone to this behavior.No one is perfect, including me. Sometimes you get an epiphany that your innocent habit may not be the best way to behave. It is worth noting a few bad habits of modern man: 1. To say that you are late, when you are already late 2. Keep your phone on the table during a meeting. 3. Ask where the item was purchased and how much it costs 4. Ask what to give 5. Mark on the photo without asking. 6.Smoking near non-smokers 7. Draw attention to food taste preferences Патимат Магомедова
Everyone should try to behave correctly and be cultured when communicating with other people. Without good manners, we look disrespectful in the eyes of others. And in some cases, very bad behavior can lead to insults or fights. Let's face it. We are all people and we all make mistakes, we are always in a hurry and often forget to behave culturally. We cannot miss another driver on the road or after a hard day's work, refuse to meet with someone and go home to rest. However, people who behave in this way are selfish. And I really don't like it when a door is slammed in the face or inhaled cigarette smoke in public. Of course, there are different situations, but I doubt that people who do this daily think of good behavior. A person with bad manners can be impulsive and jumps on to first-impulse cropping up, which in most cases is fed by the society one is living. Extreme versions of such people are psychopaths, some adolescent children and young-teenagers. My parents taught me etiquette from childhood. And the main rule that I remember and still follow is: "You will never have a second chance to make a first impression."
Politeness is a trait of human character that characterizes him as a person who is educated, well-mannered, has tact and good intentions. The value of politeness is very high and this problem has always been relevant. In our time, the importance of politeness is tried to belittle, justifying it by the fact that this trait is a weakness and nothing else. But this position is an indicator of the selfishness of the human being. Often a polite, intelligent person who is not able to clarify the relationship in a raised tone is taken for weak and unable to fight back. But this is a big mistake,because polite people are always smart, and it is not in their rules to waste their energy on clarifying relations through swearing.If we observe, we will see that polite people are on the contrary always strong-willed, able and calm make sure that their opinions and words are listened to and respected. Based on all the above,we can conclude that politeness is one of the most worthy qualities of a person,reflecting the degree of his upbringing. And if it were not for it,which gives a sense of tact to everyday relationships, disposing of others in the best way to you, then how many conflicts and unpleasant situations would occur on groundless soil. In order to maintain peace on earth,people should be aware of its (politeness)value,not to throw it into the background,calling it weakness or pretense.
Thera are such things in the world as bad manners and good manners. And we all have some common idea of these. We think that it is easy to distinguish a bad manner from a good one. But is it, in fact? I mean we actually never think about the nature of so-called “bad manners”. Of course, there must be some manners because there would be no discipline without them. But, as it was said in the article, there are some cases when people are literally unable to save good manners. Or there are such cases when it is rather controversial whether the action is inappropriate or not. For example, the cases in which disabled or ill people are involved. It may be not very well to sneeze or cough in front of other people, but it’s not always possible to hold back. Or, for instance, when people pick up their phone during meeting or conversation. Of course, in most of the cases it may be delayed, but sometimes it’s being urgent. So the conversationalist can wait politely if the person apologizes. And another situation may be connected with children. Few people like to hear loud screams and hysteria of someone’s children. But kids are kids, and it’s not always that easy to calm them down at once. So what I’m trying to say is that we should be tolerant and loyal to our fellow men and try to step into others’ shoes.
Today, the problem of politeness is very relevant. Polite treatment is the key to good relations between people. Good manners are first and foremost about proper parenting. People often forget that rudeness is an indicator of disrespect and bad parenting. Polite people will always thank you for the service rendered, they will not take this action for granted. Such people will listen to the end, let you express your point of view and politely share their own . We want help people with good manners, because we know that they will thank us. They do not cause negative emotions. Personally , I believe that being polite in our time is simply necessary, because people's happy coexistence is built on such small things. All people should avoid conflicts , if it possible, because every problem can be solved simply by finding the right words. But if we are rude, disrespectful, it will only worsen the situation and relations between people.
Sometimes people forget even such simple words as" thank you "and" please", and this is actually very sad. But the worst thing is that it is even difficult for someone to apologize, although they may be really wrong or guilty. Such people cause bad emotions, they are no longer taken seriously in any team and they aren’t liked by others. In the end, I would like to add that well-mannered people will always be respected, and do not forget about such criteria as politeness.
What are manners? The Dutch scholar Erasmus defined manners as a set of shared rules that help us show consideration for other people, rather than acting only in self-interest. And I completely agree with this definition. Manners are needed to show respect for other people and not to be rude to them. Based on this, we can divide manners into good and bad. But how can we determine which manners are good and which are not? Most people will say that it is very easy task but I don’t agree with it. Manners are based on majority people’s opinion and we must obey the rules in the society we are living in. And what should we do if our opinion doesn’t coincide with the opinion of other people and “unacceptable” manners for them are “acceptable” to you? Of course there are some manners that can definitely be defined as bad for example Being Unkind to Disabled People or Casting off the Elderly. But, as the author of article said, there are some situations when people are unable to save good manners. And in this case we can not say that their manners are unacceptable or bad. And I think we should determine bad manners based on the situation but not on the majority people’s opinion. We should have respect for people and try to be patient with others.
One of the basic principles of modern life is good relations between people and the will to avoid conflicts. Respect and attention can be earned only by being polite to others. Manners are a form of behavior, treatment of other people, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, gestures and even facial expressions. Therefore nothing is valued by the people around us as highly as politeness. But in life we often have to deal with rudeness and disrespect towards us and sometimes we are being rude to others. The reason here is that we are not always aware of the values of others and what kind of behavior and manners are acceptable to them. In modern society being modest, responsible, tactful during communication is considered to be good manners. As bad manner you can generally classify speaking loud without the need, swearing, being openly unkind to others and humiliating their dignity, imposing your will on others, not being able to hide your irritation. But politeness and good manners shouldn’t lead to pretended flattering or unjustified praise of what we see or hear. You still have to stay true to yourself while trying to be as polite as you can.
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ОтветитьУдалитьOne of the basic principles of life is the maintenance of normal relations between people and the desire to avoid a conflict. Respect can be earned with politeness. But in life you often have to deal with rudeness, harshness, disrespect to another person. Every request must be accompanied by the word "please". For any service or help you need to say "thank you". For any trouble caused to another, you need to apologize. These magic words need to be learned to speak without thinking, automatically. There must be a border between what a person wants to say or do and what is possible to say or do that will be pleasant or unpleasant to others. If you've ever stopped and studied people out in public, you've probably noticed how many rude folks there are. People used to strive to be polite and show their best side to the public, but it seems as though many of them don't care what anyone thinks anymore. Parents used to teach their children good manners, but it appears that's not the case now. Even an adult's manners have suffered lately. What they may not realize is that bad behavior leaves a lasting impression on anyone who sees them.
ОтветитьУдалитьI personally have never been sorry for being polite, but I've always regretted my being rude.
УдалитьThis article tells us about bad manners and why it’s OK to have them. The first part of it represents the idea of bad manners generally. Then it tells what the unsavoury behaviour is and about attitude to that. Also, the text has information about being in training audience, what is unable to conform and what is a fleeting problem. The main idea is that every man has his own opinion about bad manners. Something that someone may consider unacceptable, another person may consider it normal. It’s common to hear complaints about the behaviour of others, but who are the judges?
ОтветитьУдалитьManner is defined as the way of doing something or behaving. Manners are one of the most important elements of life. In my opinion the most demonstrative bad manner is bad attitude to someone. You should be aware of the needs and energy of people around you. Be polite even to people you don’t agree with. Just remember that your freedom is over where does the freedom of others begin. Just try not to disturb people round you.
As the text represented acceptable things are different for everyone. And only one thing that we can do is not to judge so quick.
Isaeva N. 4 гр.
Politeness is an important social skill that can help you make friends, succeed professionally, and show respect. You may have good manners already but are looking to expand them for an upcoming dinner party, work event, or just for life in general. You can be polite by offering a proper greeting and showing good manners with words and actions.
ОтветитьУдалитьBut who is a well-mannered person? A well-mannered person is a person who never shouts, swears, or quarrels with somebody in the presence of others because if a person respects himself, he will respect other people as well. And for example, if somebody`s behaviour in public doesn`t suit a well-mannered person, he always keeps himself from criticism and derogative remarks.
And here are some features distinguishing well-mannered persons from ill-mannered persons:
1. They don`t judge the others, they just accept them as they are
2. They don`t discuss their life, it means that they don`t talk about their income, intimate details, etc.
3. They don`t prefer listening to gossips or spread gossips about the others. Polite people are not interested in these things and they don`t pay any attention to intriguing stories about other people
4. They use such polite words as “thank you” or “please”
5. They don’t push their opinions onto others
6. They are very attentive listeners. You never see them checking their phone while talking
7. And many others features…
There’s a Slovenian proverb :“politeness costs nothing but yields much.”
Although good manners cost nothing, they can make a vast difference to how other people feel about you.
Сафия Багандова
I think that to have a bad manners is not bad,because there are not perfect people. But we can not just think of ourselves.Parents used to teach their children good manners, but it appears that's not the case now. Even an adult's manners have suffered lately. What they may not realize is that bad behavior leaves a lasting impression on anyone who sees them.
ОтветитьУдалитьWe have a saying in English “Manners maketh man”. The expression means that, if you want to be a real man, you have to have good manners.
“Manners” means the way that you behave to other people, particularly in public. If you have good manners you are polite and courteous. You remember to say “please” and “thank you”. You make people feel welcome and at ease. And if you have bad manners you are rude and discourteous. You say unpleasant things to people. You make them feel unwelcome and upset.
If someone has good manners, we can say that they are “well mannered”; and if they have bad manners, we can say that they are “bad mannered” or “ill mannered”.
Анисат Ханапиева.
We can often hear the some phrases when people say that it is so plesant to be sorrounded by well-mennerd people. But what is the defenition of "well-mennerd person"?
ОтветитьУдалитьWhat can we do to achive it? And should we?
Though nowadays etiquette is often cosidered as something boring people with good manners are always stand out in a crowd.
We always mantion the way other people treat us and others. So we can point out some characteristics and qualities to call someone "well-mannered".
First of all, it is about the way person talk. It seems so simple, yet so many people forget about how important that is. The ability to choose right words means a lot. "Good morning/afternoon" , "please" , "thank you" , "you're welcome" - are just some words that we knew ever since we were kids.
Secondly, to be considerate towards other people. Everyone will mention if you cede a seat in a bus to an elderly person or pregnant woman. To open the door for a person whose hands are full, to take someone's heavy bags, to wait until people enter and only after that go out of the room. Such usual things but so many people forget to do it.
In conclusion, I hope that no one will forget how important that is to be polite, as sometimes your polite word can brighten up somebody's dark day.
The world has changed quite a lot, and the rules of etiquette do not keep up with it. What do bad manners of a modern person look like? Bad manners due to smartphones, social networks, selfies and other problems.Constantly "hang" on the phone during a meeting with friends, tag a person in provocative photos without asking, do not warn about your lateness in advance — today, many of us are prone to this behavior.No one is perfect, including me. Sometimes you get an epiphany that your innocent habit may not be the best way to behave.
ОтветитьУдалитьIt is worth noting a few bad habits of modern man:
1. To say that you are late, when you are already late
2. Keep your phone on the table during a meeting.
3. Ask where the item was purchased and how much it costs
4. Ask what to give
5. Mark on the photo without asking.
6.Smoking near non-smokers
7. Draw attention to food taste preferences
Патимат Магомедова
Everyone should try to behave correctly and be cultured when communicating with other people. Without good manners, we look disrespectful in the eyes of others. And in some cases, very bad behavior can lead to insults or fights.
ОтветитьУдалитьLet's face it. We are all people and we all make mistakes, we are always in a hurry and often forget to behave culturally. We cannot miss another driver on the road or after a hard day's work, refuse to meet with someone and go home to rest.
However, people who behave in this way are selfish. And I really don't like it when a door is slammed in the face or inhaled cigarette smoke in public. Of course, there are different situations, but I doubt that people who do this daily think of good behavior. A person with bad manners can be impulsive and jumps on to first-impulse cropping up, which in most cases is fed by the society one is living. Extreme versions of such people are psychopaths, some adolescent children and young-teenagers.
My parents taught me etiquette from childhood. And the main rule that I remember and still follow is: "You will never have a second chance to make a first impression."
Абакарова Райсат
Politeness is a trait of human character that characterizes him as a person who is educated, well-mannered, has tact and good intentions. The value of politeness is very high and this problem has always been relevant.
ОтветитьУдалитьIn our time, the importance of politeness is tried to belittle, justifying it by the fact that this trait is a weakness and nothing else. But this position is an indicator of the selfishness of the human being.
Often a polite, intelligent person who is not able to clarify the relationship in a raised tone is taken for weak and unable to fight back. But this is a big mistake,because polite people are always smart, and it is not in their rules to waste their energy on clarifying relations through swearing.If we observe, we will see that polite people are on the contrary always strong-willed, able and calm
make sure that their opinions and words are listened to and respected.
Based on all the above,we can conclude that politeness is one of the most worthy qualities of a person,reflecting the degree of his upbringing. And if it were not for it,which gives a sense of tact to everyday relationships, disposing of others in the best way to you, then how many conflicts and unpleasant situations would occur on groundless soil. In order to maintain peace on earth,people should be aware of its (politeness)value,not to throw it into the background,calling it weakness or pretense.
Омарова Аида
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ОтветитьУдалитьThera are such things in the world as bad manners and good manners. And we all have some common idea of these. We think that it is easy to distinguish a bad manner from a good one. But is it, in fact? I mean we actually never think about the nature of so-called “bad manners”.
ОтветитьУдалитьOf course, there must be some manners because there would be no discipline without them. But, as it was said in the article, there are some cases when people are literally unable to save good manners. Or there are such cases when it is rather controversial whether the action is inappropriate or not. For example, the cases in which disabled or ill people are involved. It may be not very well to sneeze or cough in front of other people, but it’s not always possible to hold back.
Or, for instance, when people pick up their phone during meeting or conversation. Of course, in most of the cases it may be delayed, but sometimes it’s being urgent. So the conversationalist can wait politely if the person apologizes.
And another situation may be connected with children. Few people like to hear loud screams and hysteria of someone’s children. But kids are kids, and it’s not always that easy to calm them down at once.
So what I’m trying to say is that we should be tolerant and loyal to our fellow men and try to step into others’ shoes.
Khaibulaeva Khadizhat
Today, the problem of politeness is very relevant. Polite treatment is the key to good relations between people. Good manners are first and foremost about proper parenting. People often forget that rudeness is an indicator of disrespect and bad parenting. Polite people will always thank you for the service rendered, they will not take this action for granted. Such people will listen to the end, let you express your point of view and politely share their own . We want help people with good manners, because we know that they will thank us. They do not cause negative emotions. Personally , I believe that being polite in our time is simply necessary, because people's happy coexistence is built on such small things. All people should avoid conflicts , if it possible, because every problem can be solved simply by finding the right words. But if we are rude, disrespectful, it will only worsen the situation and relations between people.
ОтветитьУдалитьSometimes people forget even such simple words as" thank you "and" please", and this is actually very sad. But the worst thing is that it is even difficult for someone to apologize, although they may be really wrong or guilty. Such people cause bad emotions, they are no longer taken seriously in any team and they aren’t liked by others. In the end, I would like to add that well-mannered people will always be respected, and do not forget about such criteria as politeness.
Abdullaeva Dagmara
What are manners? The Dutch scholar Erasmus defined manners as a set of shared rules that help us show consideration for other people, rather than acting only in self-interest. And I completely agree with this definition. Manners are needed to show respect for other people and not to be rude to them. Based on this, we can divide manners into good and bad. But how can we determine which manners are good and which are not? Most people will say that it is very easy task but I don’t agree with it. Manners are based on majority people’s opinion and we must obey the rules in the society we are living in. And what should we do if our opinion doesn’t coincide with the opinion of other people and “unacceptable” manners for them are “acceptable” to you?
ОтветитьУдалитьOf course there are some manners that can definitely be defined as bad for example Being Unkind to Disabled People or Casting off the Elderly. But, as the author of article said, there are some situations when people are unable to save good manners. And in this case we can not say that their manners are unacceptable or bad. And I think we should determine bad manners based on the situation but not on the majority people’s opinion. We should have respect for people and try to be patient with others.
Naimat Nagmetullaeva
One of the basic principles of modern life is good relations between people and the will to avoid conflicts. Respect and attention can be earned only by being polite to others. Manners are a form of behavior, treatment of other people, expressions used in speech, tone, intonation, gestures and even facial expressions.
ОтветитьУдалитьTherefore nothing is valued by the people around us as highly as politeness. But in life we often have to deal with rudeness and disrespect towards us and sometimes we are being rude to others. The reason here is that we are not always aware of the values of others and what kind of behavior and manners are acceptable to them.
In modern society being modest, responsible, tactful during communication is considered to be good manners. As bad manner you can generally classify speaking loud without the need, swearing, being openly unkind to others and humiliating their dignity, imposing your will on others, not being able to hide your irritation.
But politeness and good manners shouldn’t lead to pretended flattering or unjustified praise of what we see or hear. You still have to stay true to yourself while trying to be as polite as you can.
Kazametov Milkhazh